There are sides of our character that we don’t know or don’t want to admit even to ourselves. They are the ones we don’t like, because they don’t flatter the image we want to have of ourselves. However, they often emerge in our lives and even in the most inappropriate phases.

Love, when we want to bring out our best self in order for our relationship to succeed, is one of the most sensitive. THE position of Lilith in a horoscope reveals what these dark spots are. That’s why they call it that “Black Moon”.

Black Moon – Lilith is believed to represent dark feminine energy, the assertion of one’s desires and needs. Whatever those are. It is released when we exercise our free will, when we are unwilling to compromise, when we rebel and transform inner pain and anger into power, into freedom.

It is a point in the sky, determined by the Moon’s orbit around the Earth. The Moon’s orbit is not circular, but elliptical. So instead of having one geometric center, like the circle, it has two. The geometric center located on the part of the ellipse farthest from the Earth is the position of Lilith. Obviously this is a moving point, as the Earth revolves around the Sun and the Moon follows it. Another interpretation is that it is the point of the lunar orbit, which is always farther from the Earth. However, since both of these points are in the same straight line, from Earth they appear to coincide in the sky.

It is a wild energy that has to do with primitive impulses. It represents the self that we fear will not be accepted by others. It may have to do with repressed sexuality, but also with the subconscious desires of our psyche.

See here where Lilith was when you were born and what your own “shadows” are.

Lilith in Aries

Someone with Lilith in Aries is ruled by impulse. He is competitive and independent. He is a fearless leader who wants to win at any cost. Even in sex, she is driven by boldness and desire. Sometimes he has to distinguish when it is better to pursue his extreme passions and when it is better to learn to control them.

Lilith in Taurus

Sensual, irresistible, people with Lilith in Taurus feel a love for beauty and the pleasures of life, such as food and sex. It is almost impossible to resist them, because their charm is intoxicating. After all, they are ruled by Aphrodite, the goddess of love, beauty and abundance. Be careful, however, not to pass from passion to possessiveness.

Lilith in Gemini

Never satisfied. Curious, lively. Those with Lilith in Gemini have a karmic duty to communicate, stay away from gossip and use their extremely brilliant minds to act impulsively and with little inconsistency.

Lilith in Cancer

People with Lilith in Cancer tend to be overly submissive, care for others to the point of self-sacrifice, and fiercely defend their loved ones or suffer from separation anxiety. They should remember to cultivate love and time for themselves as well. And never use their care for others as a weapon of manipulation.

Lilith in Leo

Narcissism and pride are the worst enemies. Inner strength, on the other hand, is the weapon he uses to charm others. Everything is pure performance, including sex, but sometimes she needs to leave the initiative to her partner and stop asking for the spotlight all to herself.

Lilith in Virgo

Obsessed with hygiene, she is sometimes ashamed of her desires. She would do anything to satisfy her partner, but she would have to learn to let her sensuality and natural talent seep into the other person’s mind.

Lilith in Libra

Lilith in Libra is a charming diplomat, but also a seductress endowed with elegance and grace. Free yourself from the pressure of others’ judgment and learn to accept people as they are without idealizing them.

Lilith in Scorpio

Scorpio is the sex sign. This means that he hunts lovers like game and is endowed with great charm and intensity. Sometimes, however, he can become obsessive and jealous beyond what is acceptable.

Lilith in Sagittarius

Those with Lilith in Sagittarius love to travel, to go where no one has gone before. But at the same time, they tend to hide, to be ashamed of their charisma or qualities, to the point of hiding them from others. The lesson you should take? Be proud to show who you are.

Lilith in Capricorn

In Capricorn, Lilith is completely indifferent. It seems that she can become ruthless and cold if her hopes and desires are not fulfilled. Therefore, it is best to avoid confusing work and pleasure and use the extraordinary resilience of this sign to make the most of both aspects of life, but separately.

Lilith in Aquarius

People with Black Lilith in Aquarius are obsessed with their freedom and lack empathy. They should remember that sometimes we need to open up to others and listen to them without necessarily looking for the most original or interesting thing about them.

Lilith in Pisces

Those with Lilith in Pisces prefer fantasy to reality and even repress their emotions. When will they understand that the key to happiness lies in self-acceptance?