Today’s relationships are considered fragile in every way. But why is this?

Read on and you will find that the truth is a dish that is served cold or a game that often backfires on us.

  1. We are full of indifferent pods, and don’t tell me you disagree since we have adopted the opinion in the majority that those who care, lose. The least tragic, don’t you think?
  2. Even infidelity now seems online. Suspicious reactions and new followers of the person we are interested in automatically mean new threats or even a reason to stop dealing with him or her we like.
  3. We called love excitement and he got so bored that he lost his value, that’s why he now chooses to disappear faster than the 24 hour stories on Instagram.
  4. We prefer the easy solution (obviously not everyone) of a nude or provocative photo to enjoying up close the naked body and naked soul of a person we really care about. Commonly? The “preliminaries” became the beginning, the middle and probably the end, since what else can you expect later from the other person?
  5. We look forward to seeing a message, a reaction or a like from the person we are interested in and many times more than seeing that person in person.
  6. We have equated retreat with compromise and if there is one thing we know well, it is that we should not compromise. That’s how we got full of tough people, but deep down they would do anything for true love.
  7. Once upon a time, the saying “at home, not at home” was true. Now; Now wish that your interpersonal relationships could remain “hidden”. Because unfortunately yes, everything can now be made public or widely shared with a button.
  8. We put almost everything into boxes, we follow standards and the season exactly as society dictates to us. We claim to be unconventional beings, but if you think about it, we don’t try to live only unconventionally. We do exactly the same with love and I’m sorry to say it but yes, love should never, ever come under rules and neither should it be rushed.
  9. We stand in the “appearance”. We forget the “is”. So trivial.
  10. I bet that most people have a “kavaza” in their love life, even if no one knows it. Even if we don’t really know it ourselves. It suits us emotionally. Or maybe not;
  11. It seems more convenient to share our bed with someone than to have a conversation with them. The easy solution always looks more beautiful and if you disagree, I’m glad. Good for you.
  12. In a first meeting, we usually show something different or even more beautiful than what we are with the ultimate goal of keeping the other person close to us, and in the end we usually end up with one feeling that he is in a relationship and the other clearly seems to be “elsewhere” or in his world because he doesn’t like ours.
  13. The concept of introversion has become a particularly strong asset and this leads with mathematical precision to personalities who think selfishly. No, relationships don’t cross like that, don’t tell you, they don’t even meet in the middle of the road.
  14. We frantically try to look flawless on all levels and in search of perfection on ourselves, we ignore that the person we like is also full of blemishes and in fact this is also his magic.
  15. Live communication has been replaced by messages and recordings on our mobile phones. Where will this all go? I confess that I wonder often.
  16. Reactions and gifs are the new “I want you” – “I miss you”.
  17. Sorry not sorry for this, but we constantly ask for more than we ourselves can primarily offer to the other.
  18. Hmm how about that? We are more interested in “conquering” the other person than showing them our love every day.
  19. Researches (and there are not a few) increasingly show that mainly because of social media we feel that we have infinite options in our love field. And the many choices guess.. They make us see things more selfishly and certainly more incompatible in a bad sense.
  20. And that’s how we wonder how “read”, ghosting, “hearts” and a bunch of other terms were born to describe the same phenomenon: The fear of being honestly ourselves.
  21. We are more interested in holding our cell phone than a heart. I confess that I read this somewhere and it immediately touched my heart, you see the signs of the times.
  22. We (not all of us, we said it) prefer single relationships because they are comfortable, flexible, and naturally pleasurable with usually zero emotional risk. Guys, let’s fall in love, huh? For business, let’s look for other paths.
  23. Logic, logic and logic again. So important but I wonder here too: Where is our heart?
  24. We think about which photo will bring more likes instead of doing the most important thing: To literally “suck up” every moment with our loved one.
  25. We are trained in individual sports and even from children, mainly in matters related to our professional careers while relationships are a team sport and this is something that needs training from a young age.
  26. In the age of information overload, we get bored relatively quickly and thus end up not wanting to stay somewhere for long.
  27. Flirting is not just words of love. On the contrary, flirting takes talent and few seem to have the will to develop it anymore.
  28. I think the last one concerns all of us without exception, since objectively all of us are more or less struggling with the new data concerning our relationships. However, and to be honest, especially the Mercury, our generation is literally struggling to find its footing, its identity and its revolutionary version.

What are we waiting for; Why don’t we make a difference by focusing our attention on the simple and truest things of this world?