The desire, the boredom, the need for confirmation or a drink above at an evening out are some of the reasons in which people tend to attribute infidelity to a relationship.

However, according to Esther Perel, a 45 -year -old relationship with relationships of relationships, there is one main reason that leads someone to infidelity.

The psychotherapist, who has been 66 years old, has spent decades discussing couples trying to overcome the fact that one of the two has been temptation, claims that there is a reason that is a common place of discussions.

More specifically, it sets as a basic bell, indicating that one of the two partners can seek out the relationship, the “death” of the relationship.

Long -term relationships arrive at a turning point at some point, in which both feel emotional and sexual, leaving them numb and with a feeling of disconnection.

The spark and the excitement of the Authority have faded.

The psychotherapist has revealed that this is very common in relationships, as the passage from appointments and mystery to homework, supermarket shopping and family obligations is not pleasant.

“Responsibilities and enjoyment are not necessarily combined so easily“, Said Esther Perel. “Ingredients that strengthen love between two partners are not necessarily the same that trigger love desire“

The resurgence of the spark

However, although it is normal for the spark to fade, Perel revealed that there are ways to keep the “love” alive with his partner.

He argued that creating new methods of exploration in one relationship can help see their partner with another eye.

“It could help tell interesting stories, create new rituals, try new food. The point is to give your partner the opportunity to see you and himself in a new context, “he added.

He also added that giving each other “space” to take a separate holiday or even sleeping on separate beds is also useful, as he said “desire needs space”.