To tell you the truth, I do not have rich erotic experiences at the age to tell you with complete certainty that “I have eaten my slaps in love and I finally learned”.
In today’s text I chose to give you some SOS tips and a series of “red” behaviors in a relationship.
The fact is that we did not all grow up with the same value system, nor do we have the same background in the issue of managing all the situations that happen to us. And since none of us is just one thing at the end of the day, then we can not generalize.
Especially in matters that concern our soul.
However, there are some behaviors that act as a danger signal for women who try to identify which man they are next to before it is too late.
When you feel compelled
Whenever this happens to you, then something is definitely wrong. Our relationships with others reflect our relationship with ourselves, so the first thing to consider is whether you love yourself as he deserves. Do you throw him? Do you give it to him? Are you in pain? Choose people who help your soul smile.
When he seeks to change you
If he wants to change you then you have to worry. The goal in a relationship is not to become someone else, the goal is for our partner to help us reconcile with the best possible version of ourselves and it is impossible to seek within yourself something less than that. Is not that right;
When words are not in line with deeds
There are people and relationships that in the name of love often attribute the most problematic behaviors. And although we do not all express ourselves in the same way, nor do we love for a single reason, objectively the love at the base and at the top is to want to bring to the surface the best of the other and not the other way around.
When he seeks to control your life
If it seeks to control everything that concerns you, from work, study, friends or even your appearance (even your mobile phone), it is one of the behaviors that you should not overlook.
The derogatory comments
In an attempt to be controlled by a manipulative (certainly toxic) character, he will try to closely monitor everything that concerns you, starting to usually underestimate you with indecent comments in order to lower your self-esteem and to the point of believing that if you separate him, then you will never find someone like him again. If at this point, too, you often notice that there is no respect on his part for gender equality, usually commenting disparagingly on female existence, then there is reason to leave for this very reason alone.
He gets angry very easily
When there is anger and inner anger, usually (if it is not a product of residues) you do not express it in such a way as to hurt or hurt the partner you love. So it is different to be angry as a cause and different as an occasion. So what happens when these behaviors get to the point of blaming you?
The “perpetrators” are always guilty
They create guilt and remorse for their bad behavior, thus reinforcing the dysfunctional cycle of their behavior. Verbal violence here often ceases to be enough and thus turns into physical. It escalates, it loses control of the situation and somehow the couple gets to the point of experiencing extreme images and situations respectively.
The limits he does not respect
Of course here we are not talking about preferences. We talk and refer to behavioral transitions when our limits are not obeyed by our partner. So the partner who just a few minutes ago seemed sweet and tender to our eyes, a little later turns into another human or a volcano that is ready to erupt.
When humor flirts with threats
Phrases like “If you don’t tell me, we’re breaking up” are some of the ones that usually stop looking funny and are meant to hurt. Then they often escalate and there is a case of violence. “If you do not tell me, I will slap you.” And that yes, it is clearly manipulative and definitely dangerous.
Do not stay in such relationships. You are not alone. None is alone.
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