Amaury Nunes says that Karina Bacchi made him give up the paternity suit

Amaury Nunes, 39, published a public letter in which he talks about the ban on seeing the boy Enrico, whom he has raised as a son since he was 20 days old. According to the former player, his ex-wife, presenter Karina Bacchi, would have made him sign a document giving up the socio-affective paternity process in 2021, during a crisis in their marriage.

He says that the two came to separate, but talked and decided to give the relationship one more chance. It was then that Bacchi would have asked him to sign the paper. “Ali, for me, was a huge shock, I felt extremely sad,” he says.

“But in an attempt to keep our family together and hoping that things would improve or ‘return to normal’, I agreed to sign that document, because I never thought that a simple paper could define a relationship as pure and as beautiful as mine and my son’s”, he says. “After all, as she said herself, ‘in the heart it was always like this, father and son’.”

Nunes says he hasn’t seen Enrico since April this year, 4 months ago, just before the couple publicly announced the end of their marriage. He also published a photo with several gifts he received from Bacchi, such as hats and other objects with phrases praising him as a father.

“I wish that all fathers and mothers who are also going through this, can soon find a solution in peace and get back to living with their children mainly for their own good,” he wrote in the caption. He even added the hashtag #PeaceProsPais.

Wanted, Karina Bacchi did not respond until the last update of this text. She also did not comment on the letter on social media. “It’s stupid to insist on living with people who once did us harm, who keep lying,” she previously said of her ex. “It’s hard to forgive someone who hasn’t really repented and hasn’t understood the complexity of their actions and continues to lie. Stay tuned.”

Enrico was born in 2017. He is the result of an in vitro fertilization process, carried out by the presenter independently, after ending a six-year marriage with publicist Sérgio Amon. Shortly after giving birth to the boy, she met Amaury, and the two went on to raise the child. They even announced that the former player would officially assume the paternity of the child, but the process was never finalized.

READ THE ENTIRE OPEN LETTER BY AMAURY NUNES BELOW

“Today it’s been four months since I’ve seen my son.

Right at the beginning of our relationship, one of the main virtues of my ex-wife was to be a good mother, in fact an incredible mother, dedicated, present, fighting, courageous. I admired that a lot about her, and that was one of the main reasons that made me hug that family, in that very special moment, with a newborn son.

We met in person in Miami on 08/28/2017, twenty days after his birth. There, quickly, I felt that not only she, but mainly he needed me. I believe that God put me in that country, in that city, at that very moment so that I could be there for them.
In a short time, we decided that I was going to move to São Paulo with them, away from my family, away from my job…

It was like this, one weekend I was single on the beach in Miami, playing footvolley with my friends, on the other I was changing diapers and warming a bottle at dawn, playing the role of husband and father of a newborn child, and feeling extremely happy.

The first word he learned was Mom, the second was Dad.

In these almost 5 years, we have always shared practically everything, especially in relation to our son, the bills, the responsibilities, the commitments, when I had to travel for work, she would stay with him, when she needed to travel, I would stay with him , and when the 3 of us would go together…

In the week of adaptation at school, when she was 2 years old, I would go one day, she would go another, one day I would take her to judo, another day she would take her to swimming… While she worked, I played with him, while I worked, she I played with him… Any doctor’s appointment he had, we went together, every meal of the day we always made an effort to make the 3 together, it was always like this, since he was 20 days old…

In December 2019, we were recording a reality show for our family, which was shown on RedeTV! and on YouTube, and in the last episode, we gathered family and friends and she decided to surprise me by officially granting me the socio-affective paternity of our son.

An excerpt from the letter written by her said: “After your signature, we will start the paternity process, so we will be father and son forever, after all in our hearts it has always been like this, right? love of your son and also of your mother”.

So, we started this process of socio-affective paternity, yes, he could even put my name as a father in his identity, who currently doesn’t have any father’s name.

However, throughout this process, we faced some obstacles, such as the pandemic and a crisis in our relationship, in which we came to separate (between March and April 2021). This was also publicly reported. I went to Rio de Janeiro to stay with my family.

After a few weeks, I went back to São Paulo to get the rest of my bags and sign the divorce, which was already ready, but when I arrived, we talked and decided to resume our relationship.

At that moment, she had two documents for me to sign, one was a divorce (which we decided not to sign for now) and the other was a waiver of our son’s paternity suit.

There, for me, it was a great shock, I felt extremely sad… but in an attempt to keep our family together and hoping that things would improve or ‘return to normal’, I agreed to sign that document, until because I never thought that a simple role could define a relationship as pure and as beautiful as mine and my son’s. After all, as she herself said, ‘in the heart it was always like this, father and son’.

And this was the only process that existed until then (socio-affective paternity process), there is no other process where the Justice forbids me to see my son for any specific reason.

During this last year from April 2021 to April 2022, I believe that both my ex-wife and I did our best to keep our family together to restore love, to understand everything that was happening, all the changes. .all within our limitations as flawed human beings that we are.

Unfortunately we didn’t make it, we bumped into our limits. So we decided to get a divorce, no more fights, no more accusations, no serious problems… but obviously each to their own point of view.

Of course, we were sad and upset with our differences, especially in thoughts, habits, attitudes, behavior… everything was practically diverging and was very different from when we first met. Even which church we would go to we could no longer agree.

And now, for 4 months now, I’ve been trying to understand why this attitude of hers, of not leaving me, at least living with or talking to our son, and I would like to make it clear that my intention was never and would never be to take him away from her. On the contrary, as I said here, I have always admired her as a mother, but my intention is that our son can grow up with the wonderful mother that she is, and also with a father who loves him very much, simply because he deserves it.

I’m still here with open arms and heart to resume socializing with him, no fights, no grudges, just love, and I’m sure he does too. Son, I love you, I will always be here for you, I know you miss me so much, I do too, I hope that one day soon we can be together again.”