Today, we dive head first into the tumultuous world of dating – specifically, the heart-wrenching, heartbreaking and occasionally hilarious journey of dating a ‘bad boy’.

Imagine if dating were a theme park, each potential partner represents a different ride. There’s the wheel of stability, the carousel of kindness, and then, looming in the background like a flashing DANGER light sign, is just that guy. And you will go there with your eyes closed!

Dating a guy like this is like riding into a whirlwind of romance on a motorcycle, with half your hair out of your helmet… You’re gonna get it, man!

It’s the human equivalent of the forbidden fruit – tempting, tasty but probably not great for your long-term health. They break the rules with a nonchalant smile, flouting social norms as if they were simple sentences, at least that’s how they portray it in the movies! Like they have a secret potion that turns your knees into jelly, I know… But they also give the jelly as a light meal before or after an operation! Do you understand where I’m going?

Of course, not everything is rosy and sunset rides in such relationships. Dating a self-proclaimed “bad boy” has its fair share of emotional roller coasters – one minute you’re on cloud 9, the next you’re questioning your sanity and contemplating your life as a recluse.

But despite the chaos and confusion, there’s something undeniably addictive about such a relationship, and that’s why no one judges anyone! Maybe it’s the thrill of the unknown, the adrenaline rush, or the sheer absurdity of it all. Which ok, I hear that.. But for how long?

Science, particularly evolutionary biology, partly explains why bad boys can be so fascinating. Dr. Fugère says research shows that women are more attracted to masculine men in the middle of their menstrual cycle, when they are most fertile.

“Men with very masculine features may have better quality genes, so it could be attractive to women on an unconscious evolutionary level,” he notes.

But when asked what they look for in an ideal partner, women tend to cite characteristics of a nice man, such as honesty, reliability and respect.

“In fact, they usually say they would actively avoid partners who are rude, disrespectful or physically aggressive,” she adds. “So on a conscious level, I think most women recognize that bad boys don’t do any good in the long run.”

Psychologically, it’s a minefield of mixed messages, physically the effects of such a confusing situation are just as complex. Being around an emotionally unavailable guy can make you feel like you’re trapped in a constant game of emotional charades.

It’s like trying to hug a hologram – you can see him, but you can’t touch him.

Charm and attractiveness will mean nothing when you realize what kind of person the person in front of you really is. Save yourself the trouble and give a chance to that person who will give you love and respect, not problems and tears.

Don’t forget that the testosterone that makes them bold, adventurous and rebellious will make them less willing to follow the general “rules” of romantic relationships.

-How many red flags should I put?

-Yes!