You understand very well what I mean. The love you just thought of, the faces or names that came to mind. The new girl who blew your mind or that boy who spoke to your soul. Love has always been glorified. It will always make us feel more beautiful, more attractive, happier.

Artists, psychologists, philosophers have discussed and analyzed its semantics over the years millions of times. Stories of friends that remind us of something. Happy endings that we too would like to experience or a love story that does not exist like this second one. Because we think so. And yes, it is love.

But who do we fall in love with and why? After thinking, loving search and a presence, I will develop my own theory for you somewhere here.

  • The red invisible puzzles

That’s how I have it in my head. It’s like the things we used to build when we were little to try piece by piece to create the big picture. With the difference that in love they are red and of course they are not visible, except in our smile and then our heart confirms it. That yes, these puzzles exist, even if they are invisible.

We fall in love with personalities and features that are identical to parts of ourselves. Pieces of our past, pieces we were deprived of, pieces we were once too afraid to touch. Pieces that click together without gaps or pieces that match perfectly and you wonder how and why. Kind of like a puzzle. Red. Invisible.

  • Heteronyms attract and homonyms find them even better

Homonyms are the mirror of ourselves in the opposite sex or in the same. That doesn’t matter. We are often drawn to the unknown, but as I get older I wonder: How much more stimulating is the surprisingly familiar and familiar?

  • So chemistry

And yes, I loved her very young. Everything is chemistry, let alone in love. Have you ever felt it? It is the one that makes you desire yourself more and at the same time wonder how you can say something at the same time as someone else. Laugh at the same jokes, get annoyed at the same, even when you haven’t known each other for a long time. Homonyms attract far better, and if the laws of physics want to go against us, who really cares?

Have you ever fallen in love with someone who had similar experiences? It is easier to match with such a person. It’s easier and far more aphrodisiac to think on the same wavelength. And that’s because you convey broadly the same feelings, whether positive or not.

  • Appropriation for the win

Tell me if there is a more beautiful feeling. I dare you. Associate with those who, for some reason of your own, feel like you fit. The one who doesn’t always have the rant that will destroy what you thought about him or her. Because it’s nice to fight, to be stubborn or to fight, but between us now, no matter how aphrodisiac all of these seem, after a while they really get tiring.

  • Armory to observe

And where you say that you have reached a ceiling in self-improvement, this person comes to remind you that you can do better. Because as we said, he knows you, just like you. It’s that person you probably admire, that you don’t envy but you definitely want to be like, maybe he or she too.

It is this personality that when your puzzles come together they create a better landscape. A clearer picture. An arsenal that can only bring good to humanity. Have you heard anything like that before? And yet. There are also these “weapons”, which do not kill but on the contrary are reborn or create a new life.

  • True love arises unconsciously

True love never comes if you have to keep knocking on its door. He doesn’t even need to have slept earlier, have free time, or necessarily be emotionally available to you. If you get a little closer and you both feel that there is something here. Something deeper and far beyond the surface reality of things, then yes. It’s clearly love.

  • Do you know what you see in that face?

You see. The best version of you. An improved version. A version more giving, happier, more beautiful than ever. And this interaction will one way or another, whether you like it or not, change you. Definitely for the better, but the only thing certain is that it will change you. The same will happen to that person. It’s clearly love too.

  • Are you worried about never finding that person?

If not, keep living your love. If so, first of all let’s make it clear that there is nothing to worry about. Don’t be disappointed either. The point is to find a whole person, not your other half. Let’s talk about puzzles earlier. Regardless of the toys or the colors I choose to give to love, it’s important for you to look for that person who will love you for who you are. For the one who will accept his imperfections and together with yours will try to make something perfect. Whatever that is.

Love for me is not just a name or a face. Love is first of all life itself and then our self which has the joy of enjoying everything. If it was color? For me it would be red as for many others and you know what? The choice is not random. It is synonymous with intensity, fire, passion, dominance, but more so love.

Look for the red you hide inside and you won’t lose. You will see that sooner or later you will see it around you. Almost a breath away from your heart or even inside it. Trust me!