Very special were the Mom on Sunday in May with a gesture presenter Efstathia Tsarelis. And they were special because one of the interviews she received was from her husband and father of their child, Alexander Logothetis.

The actor also left the shooting of the ERT1 series “The Beach” and talked about how he was as a father, his advantages and any mistakes, about his companionship, and brought to the conversation a variety of concerns.

The couple jumped first for this … phase. “I never expected this,” he told her when he asked him how he felt he would ask him questions.

When did you start to think seriously about becoming a father?

Around 40. Many different reasons pushed me to start thinking about fatherhood. 13 years later I think it had to do with my own personal story and issues that I had to solve and would never be missing. I was thinking about it before I met you. You came out of nowhere in one phase that I never wanted it anymore, that it would never happen. I didn’t think about it when I saw you. I thought other more cunning things! But not even because I had been scratched by many things. The first night we found ourselves in Chania, one night of the night, when we split as if it were never to come back, I didn’t even ask for the phone.

-You were 40 and me 25. What was the moment when you said this woman has the profile I can imagine my child’s mother?

-Until you told me that you were pregnant I had never thought of it. It was a relationship that evolved. When you told me you’re pregnant I said.

-The fact that I was little, that I hadn’t done things?

-That was more about you.

-You didn’t care that I might not be mature to cope …

-Why was I mature and could I? No one ever knows anything.

-What were things that never imagined when you became a father? What did your fatherhood bring you?

-It brought me the disclaimer of the ego, it was a great lesson for me. I began to think of my life than something bigger than me.

As the actor said, his characteristics as a father are different at times, sometimes he has patience, counseling, silence, while his wife said that his powerful element is his humor and generosity but also that he was not in the way.

“It annoys me but the child annoys it,” he said.

“I think I don’t imagine how I would like to be a father. I imagine how the child would like to be without a weight and a loop for the child. I was imagining different things. It is certain that I was saying that I do not want to repeat my parents’ mistakes but I do more. The point is to see the wrong path and to have a supportive partner and to give you material for thought. There are two people who are constantly working together to achieve a common goal, “he said.

About the fact that his wife was left out of space to raise their child, he said: “The reason I went to work when we did Mark is because I broke your nerves while I was at home and since then I have been working all the time. It was the right decision. It always happens to a couple who offers one thing and the other another thing that doesn’t seem at that time. But I was turning around and the grass was laid on the court. Not that I wanted to stay so forever. “

“The first intense moment of parentality was when you couldn’t breastfeed and” breastfeeding “Mark to find out what this thing is.

“Everything connects me to Mark but as the connection gets older the connection because he makes other connections and the challenge is to keep it.

When he started listening to these kinds of music that I can’t stand to hear, I began to think about how to approach Mark. I made a playlist and put them on when he turned around and showed interest. I realized that I had to go to him and not him to me, “he said.

On the fact that the relationship of the couples is disturbed when a child comes, he said: “I have to say one thing, there is no manual. Others manage it as if nothing has changed, others find it very difficult and struggling obsessed with them not to lose each other because they think they are the most important. Nothing is as it was before and from the moment you become a parent nothing will be as before. Otherwise I would not become a parent. At the end of the day when you fall and wake up there is a gap that now doesn’t exist because Mark filled it. “

What would he say to himself just before he became a dad? “All right: I haven’t regretted anything,” he said and did high 5 with his wife who managed to finish the interview with humor and joy.