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Fire letter from the mother of 6-year-old Rainer: “She threatened me with a knife in front of the child”

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By Makis Synodinos

For quarrel with her ex-husband but also the legal battle he gave to Norway for curated by Pedersen Rainer Jason The mother of the 6-year-old “spoke” through a letter.

THE mother reports incidents of violence who lived from her ex-husband both she and the child, while as she complains, in 2018 she was attacked with a knife in front of the child.

Her entire letter:

I have not been involved with the channels and gossip until today because all I was interested in was finding my child. Nevertheless, I have to say two things, and everyone draws their own conclusions.

Before my arrival with Rainer in Greece in 2020, there was a legal dispute in Norway between me and my ex-husband that lasted almost 2 years, from 2018 when we separated, when he threatened me with a knife in front of the child. There has been very serious violence from me towards him in the past and there is an official complaint in Norway about the events.

After our separation, when my ex-husband failed to persuade me to go back to him, he started threatening to take my child. I never imagined that such a thing could happen when he has used so much violence against me in the past, as I then believed that in Norway there is law and order and protection for women. He, even though we had signed to have 50-50 with care, took the child, continuing to threaten me with great hatred and very bad behavior, as a result of which I was forced to turn to the Norwegian authorities in order to get my child back.

For two consecutive years I fought alone in Norway to claim my rights, to no avail.

I handed over to the police several evidences of his violent behavior, threats, rape episodes through messages but also from documents from the Christiansand hospital.

It was at that time that I began to suspect violent behavior towards our child, from Rainer’s reaction whenever I saw him. I turned to the women’s protection services who, after telling me the story, immediately called the children’s services to investigate the case.

I constantly tried to bring my ex-husband together, to stop this madness and to raise our child together without conflicts. He replied disparagingly that he was not interested in going to suicide, that he and his family would make sure I never saw Rainer again. Strangely, he seemed very confident about the case.

I was shocked to find out in court that not only did they not agree to help me re-establish contact with Rainer, but they further reduced my contact with the child every second weekend!

The lawyer I originally had did not support me, and he gave me the wrong instructions and made sure that there was no interpreter in the court which was done in Norwegian without understanding anything. I fired her after I lodged a complaint with the bar association and then went to all the law firms in Kristiansand one by one asking for support, but for some reason no one wanted to take my case. I declared my self-representation, and sent the court 80 pages of text and evidence of what had happened.

They ignored me again, saying that it is better for the child to stay with the father because he has a family there, while I do not.

Even people in prison have the right to see their children more than once every two weeks. There was no real reason to forbid me to be a mother to my child. I do not have psychological problems, I do not use substances, I do not even drink alcohol, I was able for 3 years to work to study and take care of my child alone without any problems.

Some of the people involved in the case seemed to want to help me but many times I found that they were afraid to speak in court.

Police strangely filed the violence case, as did child services.

With absolutely no escape, my husband suggested I go back with him, otherwise as he said “I will continue and you will not like it”, leaving hints that he would take care with the immigration office to throw me out of the country.

I went back with him so that I could protect my child, since no one else did. I stopped Ricky while hitting Rainer three times while I was with him for a whole year …

With no cover for me and my son from anywhere in Norway, I suggested to my ex-husband that we move to Greece, where at least I had my family and acquaintances. He, while for a year he refused with various excuses, finally accepted my proposal, but led to accuse me of kidnapping the child when we arrived.

In the Greek courts, which acquitted me completely, we proved with messages that not only did he know that we were coming, but also that he had consented.

I asked again for custody, inviting the father to come with me to Greece in order for the child to have both parents. I asked him to stop the legal dispute and find a humane solution. He never accepted.

He came to Greece only for the court – that is, only to remove the child, while he had made a decision in my absence in Norway that deprives me of any right to communicate with my child. They were in Greece from March until October when the Appeal took place. The first time he agreed to see Rainer during this time was in September, 5 months after his arrival, and after four out-of-court dispatches I invited him to contact the child.

To this day I have never asked for alimony, compensation or any monetary reward from them. While I was away from Norway, they contacted my workplace, pressuring them to fire me.

Ever since they left in October, Father has cut off all communication with us, other than a phone call to Rainer every two months.

Whenever Ricky asked Rainer if he wanted to return to Norway, the little one replied that he wanted to be with his mom. If I knew that my child would be fine with the father, I would overcome my bitterness, but I know very well, and I and all those who have lived with the child, that Rainer wants to be with me. In Norway, I am banned from having any contact with the child by a court decision, while there is an arrest warrant. “The mother is welcome to come whenever she wants to see the child,” he said bluntly with his lawyer.

I feel sorry for my child, who I know will probably never see his mother again, and if this letter ever reaches Norway I appeal to anyone there to at least try to protect my son because this family is full of hatred. …

When Rainer and I came from Norway, I was holding his hand, going on vacation, smiling, and I asked my father to come here.

When Rainer left for Norway, he left in a black van with a hooded bravo screaming. If from all of the above it is not obvious that this family is a mafia, then I probably do not know the definition of the word well. No matter how well-crafted their lies are, even if everyone wants to believe them, the truth will never change.

Rainer, I never stopped fighting to be with you, I really did everything, and there will not be a day in my life that I do not hurt away from you. I love you.

Rainer’s mom

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