All the signs to watch out for in order not to get involved with a toxic person.
THE toxic companion is a case you definitely want to avoid.
And as is generally the case in dating, there are signs. Signs of toxicity, which if you ignore, you will pay dearly for later.
A toxic man does not have a standard behavior. He can be racist, half-hearted, aggressive, jealous and many more. However, there are some factors that will prevent you from getting involved with the wrong people.
Especially in cases where you are looking for the other half in dating platforms, It is good to know some things that will help you make the right choice, and especially to recognize a “podcast bro”.
This is a toxic guy, who hides behind his social, wanting to throw you, showing how cool and comfortable he is.
It’s not, and for this reason we give you some warning signs.
1. The sexist / half-brother.
So if you come across something that catches your eye, pay attention to its profile. For example, if it uploads derogatory videos or photos of women, it’s off your list. Also, if he makes vicious comments about women he is out. And more generally, if he makes derogatory comments about women, except again.
Because a man who does not value women, who makes divisions and jokes based on gender, is a sexist. And we sexists do not want them because they degrade our existence and do not respect us.
2. The racist
Following the first, this toxic companion is a prohibitive choice. There is no hope, because he is both a racist and a sexist. He treats everyone else at a disadvantage, despises them and can become rude and abusive (at best).
And because we are all equal – in the legal sense but also in the religious sense – you certainly do not deserve someone who does not treat you as equal.
You will find this guy very easily, since his social networks are full of messages of intolerance and devaluation. Racist jokes, even the most painless, extreme religious and political beliefs, are signs of such behavior.
Stay away.
3. The selfish.
He is the guy who pays so much attention to his image, he loves himself so much that there is no room for anyone else. In other words, he can not give much emotional space, since his whole ego has covered him.
You will understand him from his social media, which will be flooded with photos of him. The guy finds an opportunity to promote himself and how godly he is, where he stands and where he is. Half-naked photos from the gym, costumed at work, relaxed with a pole in a cafe. It will be as if it has come out of magazine pages and you will love it.
Do not do it, because you will always be in second – not to mention third – degree. It will also be very tiring for you to have to admire it all day and all night.
4. The irresponsible
Such a guy is not only immature but also absolutely tiring. It will make you angry about how good he is and how bad his ex has been to him. He will tell you in every detail, his previous experiences, expecting you to support the poor man.
And that could be a nuisance if it were not for you. Gradually you will discover that, for everything you are to blame and in fact, he will have taken care to inform his entire circle about it. Through social media, he will have publicly disgraced you, vividly describing everything that is going on because of you.
This toxic partner will never be able to truly appreciate and love you. Most likely, he has just “climbed” in his first love, who was treated so badly, at the tender age of just five years and was left with a trauma.
We do not tell you to stay away, but we tell you that in this relationship you will be alone. Mon @ against all.
5. The perfectionist
This is also a great case. He is the man who wants everything perfect, everything to his liking. If you want to be with him you have to find a way to have the desired height and weight, to dress, to eat, to behave as he wants.
His social networks will be full of photos of you from incredible places, which will show how suitable and happy you are. All this with the necessary photoshop and the appropriate filters that will transform you into the doll you want.
If, then, you can withstand this abysmal emptiness and the shallowness of this man… pass on to you.
The goal is to be who you are and to be wanted by the other for this authenticity. To bring out your truth and the other to rejoice and appreciate you. Nothing less.
So stay away from this toxic companion and pay attention to social media.
Because nothing is as it seems.
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