Polygamist married to 8 women talks about sex marathon and jealousy between wives

The routine of model and digital influencer Arturo Medeiros, 36, and his eight wives changed drastically after the mansion where they live, in João Pessoa, Paraíba, was the target of hateful graffiti because of the lifestyle of free love and polygamy. .

To prevent further attacks, Arthur O Urso -as he presents himself on social media and OnlyFans- installed security cameras and electric fences in the property and hired private security guards. “They were very bold, I’m afraid they’ll try to do something worse,” he explains.

Even with the hostility of the neighborhood, Urso and his wives did not give up on living free love. He, by the way, says he has received an average of 30 marriage proposals a day on social media. But, to be accepted in the family, the candidate needs to go through the scrutiny of Luana Kazaki – the only woman he is married to on paper – and to live with the other wives. “It’s not as easy as it sounds,” she says.

Read Urso’s exclusive interview for the F5.

Are there any sexual routines between you and your eight wives?

No, everything happens randomly. Things never happen the same because our head is very involved in fetish, and [o sexo] it never becomes monotony. We always include something new in the relationship, like voyeurism or threesome.

Is it true that you follow a schedule to be with one each day?

At first I tried to follow a schedule, but it didn’t work out. I let things happen naturally and, then yes, it was flowing super nice because it doesn’t have that combined, boring thing. For me, the important thing is to meet their needs as well as mine.

Are there any internal disputes?

At the time of the schedule, there was a fight because one wanted to be with me in a period, and I couldn’t because I was with the other. This was causing conflict [entre as esposas] on the issue of exclusivity. They want to have me just for them, that little moment with me, and not share it with anyone.

Is this moment alone of sex the only one of exclusivity in the relationship?

That, exactly. When they are in the period of menstruation I noticed that they get more sentimental, so there is a greater exclusivity. I’m more affectionate, considerate and have that sweetheart more alone with her. I try to fill them with both pampering and feelings. I go out to buy chocolates, sweets and books for some who like to read. I try to meet the particular tastes of each one.

Do you have group sex?

A ménage or trisal ends up happening together with them, but nothing is agreed. The fetish world is very wide and everyone thinks in a different way. Each of them has their limitations and likes sex in a way.

Your wives are bisexual and have relationships with each other without you participating?

One thing that ended up establishing itself in our relationship is that everything only happens with my presence. Even their involvement with each other, because three of them weren’t bisexual and ended up becoming. Luana, for example, doesn’t feel like getting involved with other women if I’m not with her. She enjoys sexual involvement, but doesn’t want to have a relationship with another woman.

How often do you date your eight wives?

Around four to five times a day, which should be around 25 to 35 times a week. It’s a real sexual marathon, which ends up affecting me physically. I’ve already lost five pounds in seven days.

Do you often resort to some stimulant, such as Viagra?

Viagra is something I will never be able to take in my life, I have a little heart problem, in the mitral valve. I need to stay away from these erectile dysfunction meds. So I turn to some natural products like catuaba and tribulus terrestris, a phenomenal Chinese plant that raises testosterone levels.

Already failed?

Of course I have and I’m not ashamed to say it because there’s the mental exhaustion factor. The machismo is very big in relation to this, it is rare to hear from a man that he scolded, but I have.

When did you start wanting to practice free love?

When I was a teenager, I wanted to experience this kind of story. The kick-off came when I was already with Luana Kazaki. She wanted to have an open relationship, but she hadn’t exposed her desires to any partner because of prejudice. She is from the interior of Paraíba and life there is rigid.

Do you intend to increase the number of wives?

Yes, I want to get to ten. I receive 25 to 30 requests per wedding day on Instagram, several women from Paraíba are talking to me. They ask me, ‘Aren’t you in need of a ninth wife?’ or ‘I want to be your ninth wife’.

Would they need to be approved by the current ones?

I start by getting to know the woman, intimacy, kissing and even sex. But only after a period in which I feel safe do I introduce Luana to do a kind of pre-selection to understand the thought and the objective in the middle of the relationship. Luna has to approve. Then she goes through the conviviality phase and has to get along with the other wives. It’s not as easy as it looks.