Arthur Aguiar converts chaos into music and claims to be transformed with Mayra Cardi

All the controversies the couple Mayra Cardi, 38, and Arthur Aguiar, 32, went through were turned into music. The singer and actor addresses his regrets and his reconstruction as a person in the song “Regue o Amor”, scheduled to hit digital platforms this Friday (17th). A clip is expected to air the following week.

chatting with the F5, both recall the controversies and say that faith made them change the course of their lives. Their relationship has always been debated by fans and the media in general. However, since the resumption of romance in October, they call themselves a new couple.

“In this song, I managed to put everything that happened between us in an objective and sincere way. In the last two years I went through a lot and managed to get the good part out of it. We learn a lot, evolve and become aware. A lot of people go through this, the difference is that I’m exposed,” says Aguiar.

Mayra and Arthur are parents of Sophia, 3. They had been married for about three years when, in May 2020, she announced that she was separating from the actor. Weeks later, the influencer claimed on social media that it was an abusive and toxic relationship, in addition to having been betrayed by him more than 50 times. “I took more horn than the head can carry,” she said in 2020.

Arthur even admitted the betrayal in a video posted on his social networks, but rejected the idea that he was abusive in his relationship with Mayra. He even went to court and got a court order prohibiting his ex-wife from mentioning his name in his posts.

Months later, the actor attended a spiritual rehabilitation center, said he was sorry and announced that he would like to reconcile with his ex. The two were gradually getting closer, but it was only in October that they decided to go public to reveal that they had renewed their relationship. A short time before, in April, Mayra already said that she saw Aguiar’s changes and that he was no longer an abusive guy. Since then, they were seen together more often.

“Somehow I managed to transform my chaos into something positive, both as a human being and as an artist. When you make mistakes in life, any reconstruction is difficult. It’s a sand castle that takes a second away. It takes a while to rebuild. the earth is wet. Only with time and attitudes”, explains Aguiar.

Mayra says that she liked the result of the song and that she believes more people can identify with it. “This song is cool and for me it was important, a beautiful way to show feeling, it has truth. I believe it will impact everyone. I was moved and I didn’t expect it”, he says.

“While he was rebuilding, I was already becoming another person. I reassessed our relationship. I didn’t believe in God and I had to go through all of this to change this thinking”, he adds.

Since everything happened, Mayra always went public to tell her followers the direction her life was taking. However, there were many times that she felt attacked on the internet, especially by women who criticized her after any rapprochement with Arthur.

At a certain point, she realized that she was also living an abusive relationship with her social network and her audience. “Followers told me what I had to do, what I could and couldn’t do. They said I couldn’t be with him anymore [Arthur]. I had to take care not to fall into this danger and lose my values,” he says.

Despite the criticisms, the model and influencer says that, after she surrendered to her faith, she became more sure of who she was and what she wanted. It was then that he decided to give one more chance to what he felt and saw in his partner. “I work with people transformation and, if I didn’t believe in my own transformation… Today I know what I want regardless of what happens in the future. I’ll do my best today.”

This is also the thought of Arthur, who says he has changed some attitudes. “When you allow God to enter life, a lot of things change as a whole. Your perceptions, your will and your values ​​change. I don’t see myself just looking at my navel anymore. We build a relationship with dialogue,” he explains.

The actor and singer, who has even been tipped to enter the BBB 22 and gives up on the matter, says he is a much better husband after the mistakes of the past and that he doesn’t want to miss the last chance he was given by Mayra. But he also sends a message to those who criticized him.

“We are at a time in the world where no one makes a mistake, everyone is 100% perfect and judges the other. We saw that there needs to be an exchange and nothing under the rug to be happy”, he concludes.