With the atmosphere becoming more and more festive, and all of us getting into “magic” rhythms, the first dates are slowly making their reappearance, while many are wondering at the end if it is really worth it to give their partner a chance .
So, we are here to bring you the 4 most important elements that you should follow, with the sole purpose of first understanding if there really is the coveted chemistry between you, and then if it is finally worthwhile to continue your contact with this person, raising the level of your relationship.
1. The subconscious emotion
Once you find yourself, the instinct (fight or flight) will “beat” rhythmically, giving you what we call a first impression. That is where everything is hidden, in the automatic emotional reaction we have for the person in front of us. Of course, this feeling can well be reversed later, but our goal will always be to trust the instinct, listen to it clearly and do not ignore it.
2. The wait and the impatience
Always, when faced with a new situation we tend to expect results much sooner than specified by the treaty. So all you have to do is enjoy the moment and keep in mind the “key points of reference” that correspond to the subsequent relationship with that person.
3. Objectives
Talk openly about your goals, dreams, passions and needs, be honest with each other, give a piece of yourself so that your partner is able to understand whether you are really compatible or not (and the opposite). It’s good to be able to determine what really gets to know each other, albeit very early. On the other hand, it will give a taste of what the sequel protects and whether it is really worth the effort of the investment.
4. Decisions
Measure things clearly and realistically, I know, it is very difficult, especially if the first date eventually turns into a magical moment, however you have to show restraint and readiness. Put down what you have done and weigh the information you have gathered, try to identify with your partner’s goals and “wants” by putting yourself in similar circumstances. If you really feel that conventionality is there then you just have to give it another chance. If on the other hand the percentages are not so high, then look at the situation as it is and learn to say “no”. Life is too short to invest in people who in the end may not identify with our worldview. Everyone has the basket, do not be disappointed.
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