Some of us are shy, some of us are bold. Some of us get straight to the point, while others are more low-key.

Whether you realize it or not, the way you act when you’re romantically interested in a person is pretty consistent, and your zodiac sign can explain why.

Fire signs tend to be much more assertive and direct. Earth signs usually play the long-term game. Air signs are more playful and unpredictable, and Water signs are likely to move with extreme caution.

Aries

As a fire sign, you tend to express interest in others in a way that is assertive and honest. Your straightforwardness is something that makes you stand out from many. You enjoy the chase, so you usually prefer the more difficult tracks. As soon as someone piques your interest, you take chances to conquer them. The problem sometimes is that when the spark reciprocates it can die out as quickly as it was ignited.

Taurus

Considering your earthly nature, you rarely rush into love affairs. In fact, if someone tries to move too fast, you’re prone to hiding. On the other hand, as a sign ruled by Venus, you usually approach the person you clearly like. Maybe a little clumsy but always cute, your manner is so magnetic that the other person can’t resist you easily.

Gemini

You are unpredictable. But when you really like someone, your intentions couldn’t be more clear. As a mutable air sign, you’re constantly looking for relationships that are intellectually stimulating and keep you on your toes. Others may not always be able to state their intentions, but that’s exactly what keeps things interesting, and you’re somehow drawn to that mystery.

Cancer

Fueling your excitement, holding space for emotions and controlling them, is very common for you. While you may approach new relationships with caution, you never hesitate to open up once you feel comfortable. Your intentions are always so clear that others see you as a safe, encouraging presence.

Leo

As the sun-ruled sign of the zodiac, your intentions very rarely go unnoticed. When you like someone, you have no problem complimenting them and giving them all your attention, as long as you get the same effort in return. You go out of your way to make the person you care about feel special. You’re a fire sign, which ultimately means you like to show your enthusiasm to the world.

Virgin

You’re always looking for ways to serve and help the people you care about, so when you like someone, you focus on showing them your helpful side. You are also incredibly observant, you remember everything and in detail. This is how you make him feel special: by noticing things about him that most people tend to overlook.

Libra

Flirting is in your nature. You can flirt even with people with whom you see no future. This can confuse others about your intentions, but when you’re really interested in someone – which is often, given that you’re a hopeless romantic ruled by Venus – there’s rarely any confusion. You are friendly, familiar and understanding, and the person you are interested in usually appreciates this outgoing personality of yours.

Scorpio

When you love someone, you do your research before you make a move. As a cautious water sign, you don’t like taking risks, especially when it comes to relationships, so playing it safe is your guiding principle. When you finally feel it’s time to open up, you take this step very seriously.

Sagittarius

As an adventure-seeking sign, you enjoy the chase. You also enjoy freedom and like-minded people. You are not looking for security in relationships, but rather someone who is spontaneous and unpredictable. When you like someone, you’ll invite them on last-minute trips or a long, late-night walk around town. One would say you want to escape anything resembling commitment, but you simply prefer those who appreciate your free nature.

Capricorn

Ruled by Saturn, the planet of discipline, you tend to take a more structured, traditional approach when it comes to your love interest. When you love, you usually do it in a reserved way, which means you may not immediately make your intentions known. Instead, you prefer to make sure you can see a future with someone before taking action. You are valued for the stability and grounded energy you provide and that is important.

Aquarius

You usually appear cool, calm and collected and when you like someone, things don’t change. In fact, you can appear so relaxed that it can be easy to confuse the messages you send. Some signs you might want someone: You want to spend as much time as possible discussing your views, or send them a song by an artist they’ve probably never heard of. Or go to a screening of an independent film.

Fish

As a mutable zodiac sign, you tend to go with the flow so you don’t put too much pressure on the person you care about. When you care about someone, you are incredibly generous with your time, efforts, and energy. Although you can be a little naive at times, your positive outlook works in your favor when it comes to dating.