What about the apology? It’s not candy.

As irritating as it is to associate with egoists who never utter that word, it is even more so to hear it all the time. You don’t have to apologize for everything. You are responsible for what you say. Not for what they understand.

Somewhere here to thank Natalie Portman for the excellent quote.

*When you sent a saleswoman upstairs to bring shoes to your number. But, you didn’t buy them after all.

*When you sat in an armchair on the ship that only had a jacket on and was supposed to be “caught”.

*When you asked the delivery man to bring you your coffee again, since he made a mistake in the order.

*When you told your friend that you don’t like her boyfriend.

*The time you didn’t invite the most annoying guy in the office to your birthday party. And he asked your reason.

*When you left the cinema in the first half hour of the movie because it was splatter.

*When you told your university professor that you disagree with his grade and would like him to reconsider.

*When you abruptly answered the phone while drowning at work.

*When you canceled your date with your girlfriend for the second time.

*When you told your brother no, you can’t take care of his dog while he’s away on a trip. For the second time in a month.

*That night when you told the bartender that you didn’t like the cocktail he brought you and he made you another one.

*The time you had your manager explain something to you for the third time. From beginning.

*When you left a date because you were bored.

*All the times you spoke your mind. As provocative as it may be.

*When you made a remark to someone who made a homophobic comment.

*When you were remarked about where your dog defecates.

*Speaking of dogs, you didn’t even have to apologize when you left water and dry food on the sidewalk. The cats do well and gather there.

*When your team lost in Taboo because of you. You play for fun. Come on.

*For saying you were going to quit a bad habit and still haven’t. Your own business.

*When you locked the door and didn’t talk to your roommate because you wanted to be alone.

*When you asked the landlord that it is OK to delay the rent for two days.

*When you told your mom you’d call her later and you didn’t.

*When you called the doctor again because you didn’t understand something.

*When you insisted you were right and got passionate. Even if you were wrong after all.

*When your interlocutor almost demanded your apology. And you gave her. Badly.

*When you discuss a raise at work.

*Every time you blow your nose when you’re sick. Apologize OK, but not fifty times.

*When you asked those next to you in the theater to be quiet.

*When you didn’t want to lend that book to someone you know will never return it.

*When you expressed being3 hurt/in love/annoyed or any other emotion. Out of fear of how the other will react.

*The times you apologized for someone else’s behavior. You are not responsible for this.

*When you miss deadlines and it’s not your fault. At least not just you.

*All those times you apologized for your apology. For God’s sake. Arrives!

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