“Perfect” people are seen in actions. We’ve had enough of words, don’t you think? And whoever didn’t get enough probably never digested them as much as it would have been better to see them in action

He has no girlfriend like actions. Because my friend, love is literally found in actions. How much more beautiful is solitude, your cup of coffee, your chair, than tasting a rudimentary companionship? From being accompanied by yet another cup of coffee that has nothing of substance to share with you?

And I’m not saying, the chairs usually go in twos and the tables are for sharing, but hey, if they don’t share the feelings equally, then it doesn’t make any sense at all.

It is truly more beautiful to sit as a monk or nun, like a lonely seabird spreading its wings on the horizon, than to be oppressed in molds that have nothing to do with your wings.

Better to be on the horizon forever

If you can’t squeeze yourself into a position that doesn’t suit you and a partner who doesn’t value actions as much as words, then yes. Choose your horizon once and for all, in the company of the most prosaic things. Your coffee mug, your own knife, that fork that fits perfectly in your hand, with these self-existent things, that you find and discover every day only in yourself that they take life and above all form.

Wrong numbers. They get trapped, released, squeezed, cut, sewn and finally wear the wrong size. What who? But of course the people.

As if it’s bad for them to be happy. As if it is illegal to laugh and abnormal to be happy. As if they owe someone something, and don’t deserve a better happiness and a brighter landscape.

What a mess he would say, huh? What a routine. What a limitation and unfortunately how much more sadness.

Don’t regret your mistakes

Never ever regret whatever your mistake was. More regret for all those right things you thought you should have done to the wrong people. The ones that if you decide to leave your life, only the right things will start happening.

Wrong people are stations, not destinations. Wrong people should be engraved in our minds as lessons, and not necessarily as afflictions. As lessons that at the most appropriate time in our lives, came to mark a necessary station to help us get one step closer to our future destination. And can I tell you something?

Things are simple, and emotions always distinct, except that we humans find it difficult to feel them. The game called life is usually lost in words. But if there is love at the bottom and at the top of people’s souls, everything is fixed and this is one of the greatest truths I have to give you.

And then, in the middle of nowhere, where usually the majority of truly happy people say they didn’t plan it, the “right” person finally comes along. The one that stands out among the thousands of “mistakes”.

One who honors the word of honesty and who usually has the same complaint as you: He prefers actions to words, because he never had enough of words, even if they were true.

This person, the “right one”, is likely to appear in time and at the most wrong moment, where you will in no way expect him. I usually tell you so you know, he doesn’t hold flowers, and he won’t flirt with you like dozens of others before him used to. He or she will be seen appearing in the crowd, on an invalid day in the middle of the week and where everything will probably look like it is exactly the same. He will promise you a few things through his very being, and perhaps a look will do as much work as a thousand words can never do.

These “perfect” people usually don’t swear because they are afraid to make vows but they are determined to overcome all their fears since their biggest fear is not to lose you.

And then you know what? “Perfect” is doomed. However, you will discover the sequel on your own. Unless you’re already experiencing it.

So happy “sentence” my friend and friend and I wish it to be the most beautiful you will live. Oh, and lest I forget: I hope you’ve done or intend to do a long dive, since this particular seabed hides many little gems, and although you didn’t ask me, I advise you to discover them one by one.