Before we begin, let’s get this straight: Not everything begins and ends with a person’s outward appearance. Instead, it all comes down to what vibes you exude as a personality and of course how good you feel about yourself.

To be more clear to you, in this particular article we will not talk about the external appearance at all. Because I won’t hide from you that as I get older I finally come to the following: The last thing that counts to feel and look sexy is your big lips, your make-up face or your lean and well-trained body.

Sexiness is another mindset

Yes, exactly that. Feeling sexy is literally as much about your temperament as it is about your aura. Some people can feel really sensual when they achieve something great in their careers, others when they start a new hobby, and other people if they just wake up with a happy mood and a glowing complexion and smile. So it is in man and every man can be sexy, as long as he never forgets his uniqueness.

1. You enjoy the moment

How much do you manage to enjoy the moment? To fully savor the positive events that arise in your everyday life?

According to the branch of Positive Psychology, the so-called “savoring”, the ability to enjoy and taste the small joys and moments of happiness, beauty and in general anything that makes you smile, automatically means that you have the ability to stand still and simply enjoy , to internalize this pleasure and at the same time fill yourself with reserves of positive emotions.

It is a fact, and in fact according to thorough research, that people who manage to do this are much happier and more attractive than the average.

2. You have fewer inferiority complexes

Are there people who have no complexes at all? As strange as it sounds, of course they exist. There are people who are willing to face their complexes, to look them in the face with the aim of always realizing where they are blowing themselves up and whether this ultimately helps them somewhere.

People who have more self-confidence and self-esteem are undoubtedly also more sensual. But beyond that, they have taken the time to themselves in order to stop hiding what the majority is hiding. They believe in themselves, develop their abilities, choose self-improvement and somehow manage to love and be loved for exactly who they are. Because if we don’t accept ourselves first, then who will do it for us?

3. Spontaneity above all

Spontaneity is seen by many people as a blessing and by others as a curse. It depends on the moment but again if someone asks me, I will answer them this: Many times I feel like suppressing my spontaneity, and then things get worse, because what comes out is not me. Next is, then, for the other person to collect it as a lie or as a hold. Because if we’re not real after all, then what? If we are constantly holding onto our emotions then where is our attractiveness? Relationships are give and take and if we’re going to be stingy with everything we feel, then we better choose to be alone for a while. And that is just as wonderful, as long as we want it.

4. Humor over everything

I don’t know about you, but in my eyes humor is one of the most attractive traits in a person. Of course, the sense of humor is something that varies from person to person, but who doesn’t feel good when they find someone who “gets” their humor?

A person with humor usually deals with situations calmly when something goes wrong and is characterized by positivity, since he can easily make someone feel more pleasant. Those around him usually say that he has a good time with him and they prefer him for his company and this value he gives to those around him makes him more attractive to everyone. Objectively speaking, humor for the win guys.

5. Favorite intelligence

I know everyone finds something unique about their clicker attractive, but is intelligence all about that?

Primarily attractive I notice to be the uncomplicated source and the politely true. That makes you want to get closer, that shows that he belongs to someone who will listen, that is not self-centered, not only concerned with himself. With one word; Effortless. Effortless, because when the result is excellent without hiding any particular diligence, then this is extremely attractive even if it has arisen through intense introspection. And when we say introspection, we naturally also mean the theoretical background of a person. Mainly its theoretical background.

6. You speak passionately about something you like

Devotion, passion, love are some of the words one would come across in many circumstances. With these concepts one could describe the relationship between two people who are very much in love. But they could also be used to describe the manner in which one is given to whatever one undertakes.

But beyond all that, in order to be able to commit and be passionate about something, a very important condition is to have accepted yourself. Self-acceptance, however, does not mean compromise. Accepting means that I don’t fight myself for any mistakes but support myself so that I can achieve all my goals at some point.

Moral; A man who loves both his mistakes and his right is considered attractive. He loves himself because he wants to be loved and given equally intensely. So if we stop sabotaging ourselves, if we look a little better within ourselves, then maybe we will open the way to succeed in other areas of our lives. Let alone in the field of our attractiveness and eroticism.