Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck have been estranged from each other as divorce rumors abound. A source told “Entertainment Tonight” that Lopez, 54, and Affleck, 51, are now living separate lives, but they’re not officially divorced yet.

“At this point in their lives, they’re just doing their own thing,” said the same person who spoke to the medium. “They went into their relationship very optimistic and believed things could change, but they haven’t.”

Over the weekend, several international media outlets reported that the couple is selling their $60 million Beverly Hills mansion, just one year after purchasing the property (cash please…). Affleck has been living in a home in Brentwood since mid-May.

The singer is leaning on her mother, sisters Lynda and Leslie Ann, and 16-year-old twins Max and Emme during this transition. In fact, the “Selena” star even canceled her “This Is Me… Live-The Greatest Hits” tour to spend time with her children, family and close friends.

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The “Argo” actor, for his part, also leans on loved ones to help him through the tough times, including his best friend and “Good Will Hunting” co-star Matt Damon.