Abundant food for thought was given by Electra Asteris with a post on Facebook where she responded to the – in our opinion – question why she does not show the children her in the photos she uploads.

Happy’s wife Traveler, Happy Blletswho is editing the show, decided to answer the question as “blur»The faces of her children in the photos she can upload to social and broadcasting her children appear back or discreetly.

And the truth is that she was expecting a loss in the comments but most were drawing up with her view:

“Why don’t you show the kids?
🤱 before being born
When I was still pregnant I was very concerned about the fact of the baby’s exhibition on social media and television. I was thinking that because her father is a public person, she could also be exposed to the media and I didn’t like it as an idea. And the more I thought, the more the idea was that no baby, a child (or a teenager) should be exposed by others, because he still does not have the freedom to do it on his own. And of course this was a common line we decided with Eutychus.
When was born (born)
Dental our daughters have not been shown in our social media accounts, nor in the show we all do together, nor anywhere else. At least not on the face or in very personal photos. This was done with full empathy and attention from us and not by accident. And one will say why so much perseverance? I’ll explain to you right away.
⁉ – the reasons:
-A baby, child or (and) teenager is not yet adult. Especially talking about a baby or a child has no choice to choose which photo you will upload, which video you will choose, what perspective you will show. What you upload is what you want to show, but for another entity, not for you. So it’s the same as uploading a photo/video of a friend, bond, relative, etc. without having his consent. Do you understand that it could start a fight for this, right? An adult can choose what to upload, why not a baby? So I decided before she was born, that I would behave as a distinct entity that has an opinion and not as my property that I photograph and expose it, without her consent.
-The innocent photo you will upload is not so innocent in the eyes of a childbirth, abnormal, weird. There is no reason to expose a child before he even reaches 18 years in such a way. Especially with everything we see all this time, I think I don’t need to be spoiled.
-When it grows up and see you uploaded then it may not agree or shame it, but it may be too late.
-It has no substance to expose so much another person. If you are proud of your child a hug, give quality time, give him feelings, not a photo in Instagram. If you want to be exposed, expose yourself. You cannot expose a man irreparably, without even having his consent. It’s not honest. When my daughter grows older he can choose whether to upload the photos. But if I upload them now, he will never have this choice. I will have deprived her of the choice to expose herself or not herself.
-Finally, hellooo! There are also people who do not have FB, IG, Twitter and do not like the exhibition! Your child may be one of them. And that’s ok!
As long as the weather passes
The comments are not many, but there are. I have occasionally seen “the little one will we see?”, “The kids why do you hide them?”, “It doesn’t seem nice to blur the child” and the like. The truth is that they are lost in such wonderful comments that you write to us and that negative or strange comments are only 1% (and maybe I say a lot). However, I stand for them to tell you that in the end my choice justifies me and I even want to advise other parents to do the same. To respect the personality of their children. Do not expose these little men. Do not let everyone have access to their face, their personal lives and their daily lives.
🔴 APPLY
Finally, and wanting to answer this notorious “why don’t you show the kids” the answer is: “I don’t know if my daughters allow me to upload the perfect photo I took with them, I don’t know if they like I don’t know if they approve it.” So as I would ask my colleague or my father if it allows me to upload a photo we took together, so I will wait until everyone can decide for herself, have her own social media and upload that photo together. And then believe me I will feel much more pride.
We are not all ourselves
You may be completely opposed. You may be somewhere in the middle. I understand you all. I just wanted to expose my truth and the way we work, without necessarily having to know their face because they have a familiar father. Everyone is free to do whatever they want. I’m just of the opinion that everyone does what they want with their own life, not with their child. The child is not property. Not even the parent owner. The parent is there to support, grow and create a free man. This is my opinion.
😂 And now I am waiting for the chaos in the comments!
I’m ready truth !! 😂 »