Adrielly Souza
Married for over a decade with actor Alex Nader, Aline Borges believes that love doesn’t have to be stuck to the idea of exclusivity. At 48, the actress, who currently plays the character Tânia in TV Globo’s soap opera “Dona de Me”, said she lives an open relationship with her husband, marked by freedom, confidence and partnership.
“I do not own the desires or his body, just as he does not own mine,” Aline said in an interview with the newspaper Extra. For her, the success of the 16 -year marriage is precisely in the mutual choice for a bond based on respect and autonomy. “I want to grow old beside him, but without losing sight that we are individuals with our own wills and trajectories.”
Despite the current certainty, Aline reveals that the way to this understanding was not immediate. At the beginning of dating, he faced jealous crises and brought insecurities of past relationships. “I had very jealous boyfriends and ended up absorbing it. At first, I made a scene with Alex, and he went straight: ‘If so, it won’t work.’
The actress says that the couple’s temperament also influenced the dynamics. “He is Sagittarian, I’m Ariana. It was a mix of fire with freedom. I learned from him to look at love in a lighter, less controlling way,” he said.
Today, the two also share the stage. Aline and Alex are playing with the show Migrants, which opens this Thursday (12) at the Firjan Sesi Theater in downtown Rio de Janeiro. The piece is an adaptation of the text of the Romanian-French playwright Timi Visniec, directed by Rodrigo França. Assembly proposes a reflection on human displacements, political borders and identities.
Aline sees joint work as a natural extension of the life partnership she built with Nader. “It’s good to be able to create and share the stage with someone you know so well. The theater also requires listening, surrender and generosity – and I think this we have to spare.”
For her, living a marriage outside monogamy is not the absence of commitment, but a choice for building an affection without possession. “We want to be together. But that comes from the will, not the obligation. And that is the most beautiful,” he concludes.
Source: Folha
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