She has experienced Jennifer Lopez ttrue love? The artist, who appeared on Howard Stern’s SiriusXM show, talked about love and relationships. “Do you think you’ve really been loved?” Stern, 71, asked Lopez, 56. After a pause, she answered “No”adding, however, that he has experienced true love for someone else.

“What I’ve learned is that it’s not about me, that I’m not lovable, but that they’re not capable… They don’t have it in them.”he said, adding: “And they gave me everything they had. They gave me everything. All the rings, all the things I could want. The houses, the marriage, everything. But…”.

Part of the problem was, he admitted, that “I didn’t love myself” at that time. Lopez she has been married and divorced four times, most recently with Ben Affleck. She has two children, 17-year-old twins, with ex-husband Marc Anthony.

“The last time I broke up, it was the best thing that ever happened to me. Because it set me on a journey… I had a religious counselor, a therapist, a couples therapist, an individual therapist, a counselor to understand addiction. I had everything. I was thinking, “I’m going to figure this out, even if it kills me.”. Finally, as she explained, she understood that everything starts with us.

“The bottom line is you – no one else. Now I can sit here with a lot more confidence and self-awareness about the things that have happened to me, whether it’s my mother, my father, my own life, how I learned to love. I feel really comfortable and good about myself, with all the good and all the complicated things”he added.

When the host asked her again if she has ever experienced that feeling – love – with someone, Lopez replied again: “instant”. Then he said to her: “I wish you so” and she thanked him.