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Schoolgirl bullied’s father lashes out – ‘They ruined my child’

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“I feel like I can’t take it anymore. For four years I have been fighting to keep the beast inside me, which thirsts for revenge and I feel that I have reached my limits. “I see my daughter disappearing every day,” says the father.

Her 55-year-old father bursts out student who fell victim bowling in a school in Northern Greece, speaking for the first time about the nightmare his daughter is living.

“They destroyed my child, how will they bear to look at us in court, what will they say to the judge? I also want the punishment of the principal of the school who didn’t do the slightest thing to protect my daughter from what she experienced and of course her classmate at the time, who subjected her to these torturous tortures. I will not rest if they are not punished”says the student’s father indignantly at GR Times.

“She was having panic attacks and crying all the time”

As the student’s father said, the situation would change dramatically some time later when the girl would finish middle school and go to high school.

“He was having panic attacks, crying for no reason, isolating himself. we realized that the situation had become very serious. We went to a specialist psychologist… The child now had a new nightmare to face and that was the past and everything he had experienced. He never got over them. Never. This is how we got to today that he is facing serious psychological problems. She gives her fight. Tries. And we are constantly close to her. We are patient until the time of trial of the case. All I want is for the principal and my daughter’s classmate to be punished and for there not to be another victim like my own child.”father concludes.

Anger. Indignation. Words that become sobs and drown in tears. He is the father of the student who was a victim of bowling and today, about four years after what he experienced as a high school student, he is trying to get back on his feet with many difficulties and heaps of psychological trauma and wounds that time did not heal, as he characteristically says.

“I feel like I can’t take it anymore. For four years I have been fighting to keep the beast inside me, which thirsts for revenge and I feel that I have reached my limits. I see my daughter “lost” every day.

My little girl, my pride, my princess. We got it after years of hard work. Ten years, four IVFs my wife did and finally with the help of Saint Raphael our only daughter came into the world. We love this creature. And what I wouldn’t give to see her smile again. So be it. She is constantly immersed in her thoughts. He avoids going out, of course no need for social contacts, he avoids everyone. Her condition continues to deteriorate. It seems like he can’t escape the past.

Imagine what this creature has been through. Jokes, swearing, teasing. I sit and think what kind of soul this classmate had, what principles he had from his home, I don’t know, I can’t find answers… The parents are also to blame. Because when we told them what had happened, I didn’t see any inclination to do something, to make him wiser… I wonder… Did they ever put themselves in our shoes, did they even bother to wonder how my family has been living for four years after what happened did our daughter experience the bullying she suffered from their son? Her classmate’s life, as I learn, continued as normal, she finished and the school is getting ready for studies… But my daughter is languishing day by day. Didn’t my girl have dreams? He had. Isn’t it unfair that today they are in this desperate situation? “, wonders the student’s father and bursts into tears.

“We got to the point where my wife and I were wondering if we were to blame for something, if we didn’t realize it sooner. Maybe… maybe… maybe. You can’t easily manage it. He remembers when he spoke for the first time, how much pain my child was hiding inside him and he didn’t speak, my God, how much pain. I remember he had come home that day. She looked lost, her eyes red from crying and her purse torn. I ask her what’s up my child, what has happened and she tells me everything. We didn’t waste any time, we went straight to talk to the headmistress of the school. Do you actually know what he did? He kept it quiet. That’s what he did. He didn’t do anything. has a huge share of responsibility. Huge. he had to protect my child, the student who attended the school and he did nothing. At the beginning we thought that what is done is done and that we will move on, especially our daughter. But unfortunately things didn’t turn out that way.”

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