While you should always trust your gut when it comes to dating, sometimes you may need to step outside of your comfort zone — yes, even you, Taurus. Change your perspective and manage people and situations in a different way than you are used to.

Any advice will help you go further, in any case. Or you might just find that you need that little reminder of some things you’ve forgotten about in the dating world.

Aries: Move slowly

Aries love to let your emotions flow. You have a lively, passionate outlook on life.

Aries is fiercely independent and can get pissed off easily, but just as easily forgets what triggered that irritation. When it comes to dating, Aries can fall in love quickly. But, the spark can be extinguished quickly.

If you’re an Aries, take it slow this summer and really get to know people. Enjoy the moment instead of rushing like you always do. Whirlwind romances are intoxicating and fun, but they can also lead to a series of crashes. If you are looking for something more stable, slow movements are essential. You will have the time to see someone for who they really are, instead of what you imagine.

Taurus: Open up

For a Taurus, slow and steady always wins the race. Tauruses tend to be on guard for fear of getting hurt and thus find it difficult to open up to their dates. This can keep Taurus safe, but it can also frustrate potential mates.

If you’re a Taurus, you don’t have to go from zero to 360 right away, but don’t be afraid to pick up the pace a bit. Letting the sparks fly and allowing yourself to be swept away by the feeling can become exciting. You may find things you never imagined.

Gemini: Commit to a plan

Gemini, you love freedom and flexibility. If anyone tries to limit you, you will run for the hills and slopes.

If you’re looking for a deeper connection, try committing to someone you care deeply about and what they represent excites you. Remember that dating doesn’t mean getting married or dragging a ball and chain around your leg. Just have fun and enjoy life, it’s all in your head.

Cancers: Slow down a bit

Cancers are lovers, not fighters. Every date offers an opportunity to fall in love. They rarely hide their feelings but always guided by sensitivity.

Keep in mind that it’s OK to keep some things to yourself at first. Let someone you date earn your trust. This summer, try to put some of your emotions on hold. As some say: slow and steady wins the race.

Leos: Take the back seat

Leos are dynamic, mischievous and love to be in charge. These traits can serve you well on the career front, but it can get a little more difficult when it comes to dating.

Instead of talking, first try to actively listen to the other person and not take over the entire conversation. While being the center of attention can be fun, a date is about getting to know each other, not just impressing someone else with your brilliance.

Virgos: Relax and have fun

Virgos have high standards for everyone — including themselves. (If you’ve heard of a Virgo, Beyoncé, you’ll know what I’m talking about.) Virgos spend most of their time on a date wondering if the person sitting across from them can live up to their expectations. Unfortunately – unless we’re talking about chocolate donuts – perfection doesn’t exist.

If you’re a Virgo, molding someone into what you’re looking for can be exhausting, and the other person can feel resentful of not accepting them for who they are. Sorry but it’s something you do. Not all dates go the way we want them to, but you can still enjoy getting to know each other and relax.

Libra: Set healthy boundaries

Libras love love. Long-term relationships and marriage are extremely important to Libra. After a few rides on dating apps, you feel frustrated that the perfect person hasn’t appeared.

Libras like to jump right into a new relationship, which is stressful but also a big risk since it could mean committing to someone you’re not that compatible with.

This summer, focus on this: making someone feel special is great, but not at your expense. It’s OK to be big-hearted and enthusiastic while dating, but it’s important not to commit too early. Not everyone can move at the same pace as you, so just let things develop naturally over time.

Scorpios: Just relax

Once Scorpios fall in love, they become so intense that they can occasionally scare others.

This summer, your dating mantra is to relax. Don’t rush to find the meaning of life or rediscover your deepest fears on the first date. Flirt and have fun, then save the deeper conversation for the second date. If you two hit it off, you’ll finally have plenty of time to get to know each other on a more meaningful level.

Sagittarius: Try harder

Impulsive and daring. You love new ideas, fresh experiences, exploration, freedom and taking advantage of all that life has to offer. While your spontaneous nature leads to endless fun, it can also cause a fear of commitment and responsibility. As a Sagittarius, you like to pay attention to your partner, however, if they upset you, you can write them off with a big X. Sagittarius can fall in and out of love quickly.

This summer, try going out with just one person. If something goes wrong, try to fix it before giving up so easily.

Capricorns: Embrace spontaneity

It’s time to leave the work-a-palooza behind and head to the fun-a-palooza. Free yourself from the chaos. We get it—you want to succeed at dating in addition to work. But there’s no five-year plan you can follow to find romance.

Throw the to-do list in the trash. Send a message to whoever you want without spending 40 minutes figuring out how to say “hello”. Not everything has to be planned, dear Capricorn. Getting out of your normalcy will open your horizons.

Aquarius: Embrace life’s simple pleasures

Aquarians are the pioneers of the zodiac. Progressive and contrarian by nature, you love to embrace your individuality — and we love you for it. Your visionary self, unique personality and quirky sense of humor make you entertaining (I’m thinking of you Harry Styles). Aquarians have logical, pragmatic minds, which makes them think of relationships as a puzzle to be solved. However, not everyone wants to share their future plans on the first date. Dating is all about having fun.

This summer, try to pay more attention to your feelings. Enjoy an acquaintance. Remember: Not everything has to have a purpose.

Pisces: Play the field

If Love had a sign, it would be Pisces. The sensitive Pisces tends to be consistently monogamous. And while staying in a relationship can be comforting, maybe it’s time to live a little this summer.

Even if you don’t like flirting, it can be beneficial until you step out of your world without the rose-colored glasses. Not every meeting needs to have a fairytale ending. Maybe a summer fling is just what you need.