Lila Baklesi learned to make healthy relationships – perhaps – the difficult way. He also learned that “good” kids are not boring at all. And about all this he spoke to Podcast, Natalia Argyrakis.

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The actress took many years to realize the wounds of the past. It was her first relationship as she said.

“I have been in a abusive relationship. The hardest thing is that you don’t say it to anyone, you don’t admit it to yourself because it means that you are canceling yourself and your choice and you don’t say it because no one can understand it. So dynamic woman, you have terrible guilt and when you get out of it. There is also a very chance because it is a protection mechanism, you don’t remember. You may remember things after 10 years. If you do work with yourself you can move on and make a healthy relationship. It was my first relationship. We are talking about abuse of all kinds.

You feel that you are wrong, that you are to blame for everything. Verbal abuse is very insidious. Physical is a bell.

We are not talking about a woman married to children without a job that is very difficult to leave. Women leave and go to another city and find and kill them.

I realized that I was experiencing a abusive relationship for about 6 months. But I remembered it after 8-9 years. It is a mechanism for protection and defense. I discussed it a little and I overtook it. After a few years I was with a very good friend of mine and somehow in a conversation with a girlfriend they all came to my mind and after some time I did psychotherapy. The terrible thing is that if you say it to your 5 girlfriends you will find others who have lived it and many dynamic women, ”the actress said.

As she explained, then in her relationship she made a “career change”. “Last year you liked the drama and that I am bored of good people. I’m not bored at all the good kids. They are beautiful, I pass fantastic, I can take my trips, hang out with my friends and have no stress with whom I am and these people I want to have in my life. If you get bored with good kids you should somehow look for it. I’m not saying to live boring lives but fine is boring life. There may also be “bullshit” in calm relationships, “he said.